US Youth Soccer – Sideline Etiquette: 6 Tips for Parents and Players

The sideline plays a big role in the youth soccer experience. It can be a source of encouragement—or unnecessary pressure. To help create a positive, supportive environment for everyone, here are six key guidelines for great sideline etiquette:

1. Avoid Coaching from the Sideline
Resist the urge to shout instructions to your child during the game. Trust the coach, and let players make their own decisions on the field without mixed messages.

2. Do Not Criticize the Referee
Referees are human and learning too. Mistakes happen, but criticizing them only creates negativity and takes focus away from the game.

3. Focus on the Benefits of the Game
Instead of obsessing over the score, highlight the true value of the sport—skill development, teamwork, resilience, and sportsmanship.

4. Show Respect to Opposing Fans
Be courteous and respectful to supporters from the other team. Your behavior sets the tone and models sportsmanship for young players.

5. Don’t Stress About the Outcome
Enjoy the game for what it is: an opportunity for your child to have fun, learn, and grow. Stay relaxed and avoid letting emotions take over.

6. Save Coaching Concerns for After the Game
If you have questions or concerns about coaching decisions, wait until after the match to discuss them privately and respectfully. Aim for constructive conversation, not confrontation.

By embracing these principles, parents help create a safe, positive, and enjoyable environment where young athletes can thrive. Let’s keep the focus on fun, development, and good sportsmanship—on and off the field.

Source: US Youth Soccer